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Since this blog is still pretty new and we haven’t attained a following yet (and may never!) I’ve been writing about topics that interest me, trying to gain some insight into who our readers are and how they feel about our subject matter. Unfortunately, the dearth of comments on our posts so far indicates that its still too early to gauge who is reading or if you’re even staying past the first paragraph. I hope you are, dear reader because despite the millions of blogs around the net that you might choose from, ours is unquestionably the best (of course)! Maybe you’d like to know who ‘we’ are, because if you knew us you couldn’t help but love us. This blog-site was created by my good friend Sally, who is very talented at creating and operating websites and social-sites, mostly for girls of the lesbian persuasion. We met years ago online and have been hanging around together ever since. And honestly, what can possibly be more fascinating than a couple of hot lesbians baring their souls for you right out in public?! I’ve already bared more than that on one of my posts for those of you with sharp eyes and a prurient nature. Mild nudity will not be uncommon here when topically appropriate so if you are shocked by women’s bodies… fair warning! I used to be a photo and life-model in college ten years ago so I’m not exactly the shy type! Sally and I have both owned our own online social networks, but she is much better at it than I am, so when mine folded four years ago I started working for her and together our individual talents seem to complement each other. She has the internet skills and I have…well nothing really, I’m just a big flirt, so… okay, she could have obviously succeeded quite well without me, but she kindly keeps me around because she is just a wonderful friend and knows I need looking after to keep me out of trouble, which is maybe why she created this blog. I’m the more talkative if not more outspoken of the two of us, and probably the one who’s more likely to offend you unless you’re a flaming liberal feminist like me.

Sally lives and works in Germany now but her heart is still in Scotland where she has a lovely home on the north coast. She is 100% lesbian. I’m 50% lesbian… maybe 60%, which is to say I’m a lesbian at heart, but happen to occupy a bi-sexual body that can’t seem to give up the attention I get from men. Sally forgives this slight flaw in my character for which I am grateful because if we both weren’t involved with other people we’d almost assuredly be involved with each other! We are both business managers by vocation. I live and work in America in a small college-town in east-central Ohio. I grew up out in the country with horses, a twin sister and a slightly dysfunctional family, then went off (a whole thirty miles!) to live in the city for college, modeling and my early business career and after ten years returned to take over my parents’ family-business. I’m also half-Cherokee by blood and Native American culture was a strong influence on me growing up thanks to my grandmother, so you will be reading a lot of Native American lore if you stick around. Sally and I are both very vocal about politics and social issues, environmental issues, and of course women’s issues, so if you are a male chauvinist we’ll be happy to convert you to fair-minded feminism, but if you’re a hard case, please don’t be a troll. We welcome all opinions (some more than others) but you know whether or not you’ll be comfortable with our slant on things here, but we ARE feminists, so our opinions may seem uncompromising if conservative orthodoxy is your thing, or if you’re a Republican, about whom I have absolutely nothing nice to say. Please feel free to contact either one of us, especially if you’re a beautiful lesbian or bi-sexual. Sorry… old habits die hard! ~smile~

(c) March 13, 2013 Bethany Ariel Frasier

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Bisexual Pride

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Don’t you just hate it when you’re the last to know something? Especially when its something that pertains to you and you have to wonder how you managed to stay uninformed for so long? I just found out that we bi-sexuals have our own flag! It was designed by Michael Page in 1998 to give bi-sexuals a symbol of cultural identity similar to the rainbow flag of the 1970’s which identifies the entire LGBT community. I don’t know exactly where the bi-sexual flag is intended to be displayed. I suppose I could put one on my bedroom door, or carry it proudly in the next Gay Pride Parade, if we ever HAD a gay pride parade around here. I wouldn’t have guessed flag manufacturers have much demand for bi-sexual flags, but surprisingly I just found that I can buy one for $19.95 from BiPrideShop.com. How long has THAT been there? I’ve been bisexual for 20 years and I’m suddenly finding out that I can fly my flag proudly to the world!

That might be really helpful, you know! Each of us could wear our flags conspicuously in public so we know who we are. It could save me a lot of embarrassment when I’m attracted to another girl and if she’s wearing her gay flag or her bisexual flag, I know I’m not barking up the wrong tree! Although I’ve found a disappointing number of lesbians who won’t date bisexual girls! What’s up with that?? I DO bathe after I’ve been with a man, but apparently to some lesbians no amount of ablution is sufficient to cleanse the filth of male sperm from my body. In college I pretended to be a lesbian just to avoid that stigma with strict lesbians… the stigma of smegma! I wonder if gay men are as fussy about being with bisexual men after they’ve been with a girl! Somehow I doubt it! Girls can be pretty catty!

We bisexual women DO have our problems though! Besides lesbians who won’t sleep with us, it can be challenging to find two guys who are willing to be in a threesome with us unless the guys are bisexual too. Straight guys can be so homophobic sometimes that they won’t even share a pretty girl in bed if they have to get their cocks in contact with another cock while doing it! I found that out the hard way, if you’ll excuse the pun. In fact, the best of all possible worlds is for bisexuals to just stick with other bisexuals, male and female! Gays and straights both seem too often to have the unfortunate habit of being jealous about sharing their partners, while bisexuals rarely seem to exhibit any such possessive tendencies and quite often enjoy sharing a lover with someone else. So it seems to me that bisexuals are the most versatile and possibly the happiest of any of the sexual orientations, not only because we have twice as many partners to choose from as opposed to gays and straights, but we have the fewest problems with intimate relationships because jealousy is so rarely an issue. So fly your flag with pride, my fellow and sister bisexuals! Assuming you were even aware that we HAD a flag!

(c) February 18th, 2013 Bethany Ariel Frasier

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